Foreword

By Bianca Bathurst

Great sex is a gift. Deeply connected sex is a pleasure. LONG, great, deeply connected sex is a LIFE HACK – a gateway to all things juicy, pleasurable, satisfying, abundant and liberating, and the exciting thing is, it’s available to you right now. 

Regardless of whether your current experience of sex is the complete opposite of long, satisfying and pleasurable, The Secret Technique you will learn in this book will have you instantly stepping into a whole new realm of reality. One you never knew existed
(for you) until now.

For me, sex was always something that was just ‘part of what you do’ in relationships – it was never orgasmic, it was never tantalising, and it was certainly never long enough to allow me the space and time I needed to really let go, be vulnerable and go to the edge; the edge of pure ecstasy – the edge of pure pleasure, the edge of pure delight … that was until I met my partner Adam and he knew something that none of the other men I’d ever been with knew.. he knew how to control his erection – put frankly, it didn’t control him!! He was the master of his penis, and it resulted in him being able to stay hard, stay excited, stay engaged and stay keen for quite literally hours.. all thanks to The Technique you’re about to learn. 

Now you can imagine, as a woman who’d very rarely experienced sex long enough to get warmed up, let alone to orgasm – this was absolutely life-altering!! The whole world of sex opened up for me (and it will for you and your partner, too) – all of a sudden, I actually loved sex. I suddenly felt what the fuss was all about; I was experiencing multiple orgasms, I started to actually look forward to it, and I finally felt like I was equal in the experience (not just the other part of my partner’s orgasm). 

Our sessions got longer, our connection deepened, our vulnerability expanded, and our love quite literally exploded into a whole new dimension thanks to our sex… it’s now been almost 10 years of having sex together, and YES, it does keep getting better and better, and The Technique still works (in fact, the more you practice it, the better you get at using it). 
What The Technique has given us and our connection is so much more than just epic, orgasmic sex; it’s given us fulfilment (let’s be real, short, unsatisfying sex is anything but fulfilling for either of you) fulfilment in every sense of the word – we know we’re solid in our communication, we know we’re solid in our shared vision, we know we’re solid in our teamwork, AND we know that behind closed doors we are absolutely more than solid in our sex life – all thanks to The Technique. 

This (and more), my friends, is absolutely available to you and your partner the moment you learn The Technique. No longer will you feel the sense of dread, the sense of embarrassment or a lack of fulfilment when it comes time to have sex – instead, you too will look forward to it (and so will she), and you too will get excited in the knowing that it’s going to be long and pleasurable and connected, you too will experience the true bliss of great sex.  

There’s not a session that goes by where we both aren’t in complete awe of what Adam mastering The Technique has done for our lives. That post-orgasmic bliss state of gratitude. It’s real, it’s possible, and it’s available to you on these pages. 
I want that for you. I want that for her. I want you to experience the completely transformative power of being the master of your erection. You’ll blow yourself away with just how much this will ripple out into other areas of your life. 
You owe it to yourself to overcome this. You deserve to overcome this. You deserve the pleasure that’s on the other side of mastering The Technique, and I am excited for you and her to feel what the fuss is all about finally.

Here’s to LONG, great, deeply connected sex!!

By Bianca Bathurst